I’ve always loved the quote, “Find out who you are and do it on purpose.” It sounds simple, doesn’t it? Like something you could write…

Self care is about the quiet, consistent ways we maintain ourselves, physically, emotionally, mentally, socially, and spiritually, so we don’t burn out from carrying so much for so long.

Here’s the thing: the real you is the one the world needs. Not the filtered, boxed, watered-down version. The authentic mix of curiosity, talent, and vulnerability is where your value lies.

Many first daughters are multipotentialites (hi, it’s us). We want to explore many things, wear many hats, and chase different passions. That’s beautiful, but when you add family expectations, it can feel like standing in the middle of 100 open browser tabs, and you’re the only one who knows the password.

For me, even with all the challenges, I wouldn’t trade it for a single-passion life. My time and money may not stretch enough to “have it all” at once, but over a lifetime, I can experience it all.